Is it OK to text a guy late at night?

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2. Should I Text Him First After The First Date?

The answer to whether you should text him after the first date depends on what actions you took while on the date. Generally I recommend showing sincere appreciation to the guy at least twice while on your date. This is set up in way that he knows that its going well and that you’re having a great time.

This looks like, once while in the middle of the date. Then again at the end. In conjunction with letting him know that you’re looking forward to seeing him again. Then leaving it at that. No follow up text at all.

Because if you’ve already said thank you on the date, and made it very clear at the end that you’re open to seeing him again. There’s simply no need to text him later.

He’s either going to ask you out again, or not.

However, if you forgot to thank him on the date. Or if you just genuinely want him to let him know that you had a great time. Then yes go ahead and text him first after your date.

I wouldn’t do it 5 minutes after you got home, but within the next day or two. Make sure that you close the text letting him know that you’re looking forward to seeing him again.

That way at least he knows that you’ll say yes to a second date. Then the ball is in his court, and its up to him to respond.

3. They want to give and make you happy – they just dont always know how

Hold onto your seats, ladies, this might come as a

Hold onto your seats, ladies, this might come as a major shock: men want to make you happy. Yes, that is correct. I know it can sometimes feel like he’s intentionally trying to make your life more difficult, and while he may be driving you nuts, deep down all he really wants is to provide for you and give you what you need. The only problem is he has no idea how to do it.

Men aren’t women. Our differences aren’t merely physical, they’re emotional and intellectual. It’s biology. Most men aren’t able to intuit the nuances and decipher the clues. If you want him to give you what you want, tell him what it is that you want!

The trick is to do it in a way that’s encouraging, not one that’s threatening, demanding, or nagging. When he does something you like and appreciate, acknowledge it and reward him for it.

Show him how happy it made you when he did such and such. Nothing is more attractive and appealing to a man than a woman who is thoroughly happy with him. When he sees he can make you happy, he will be motivated to do whatever he can to keep you happy.

You might be thinking: “But I always tell him what I want and he still doesn’t do it! I tell him all the time to bring me flowers and call me more and take me out and nothing changes!” In this case, yes, you’re telling him what you want but you’re doing it in a way that makes him not want to give it to you.

If you discourage him or nag him, he will feel defeated and will withdraw from you. The best strategy is to ask for and encourage what you want without complaining about what you don’t want.

Is replying late rude

Answered By: Neil Griffin Date: created: Dec 04 2021

It’s definitely not rude to respond to a text message hours after you receive it. Lots of people don’t have constant access to their phones because they’re busy with the life right that’s in front of them.

Asked By: Ashton Bennett Date: created: Apr 02 2021

6. Are You Asking Yourself If You Should?

Well hello, Captain Obvious! Yes, I know this question is clearly on your mind. But here’s the truth, if you have to ask, the answer is always no. Please keep in mind this isn’t about being right or wrong.

This is more about the reason that you’re hesitating, anxious or worried about sending it.

When those types of emotions or anxious thoughts are present. Its usually an indication that you have some kind of thought or subconscious belief that is fear based. And because of that, the answer is no, don’t hit that send button. Let me clarify further.

Though the real answer is you should text him if you genuinely want to. And can do so confidently without any expectations for a specific outcome.

The truth is when you really like a guy, very, very, few women can send a text and not have any expectations around the outcome of it.

Why You Shouldn’t Message Him First

Most women I know, (I’ve been there too) if they send a text, and he doesn’t text back, or it doesn’t go the way you’d  hoped. Can’t just shake it off like nothing happened.

Instead, you end up feeling crushed, disappointed and blaming yourself for doing something wrong. Spinning in fear and anxiety and beating yourself up. Frantically looking for all the reasons that he’s not into you, that you’re not good enough, attractive enough, etc.

I say yes these are modern times and it shouldn’t matter. Yet the reality is, that more often than not, it does matter. So if you have any doubt in your mind, just let it be. Let him come to you.

Then instead of texting him, take a look inward. At the underlying cause of that anxiety and fear behind your doubt.

The healing of that fear is the foundation of your ability to date with confidence.

It’s the foundation to your radiance and irresistibility to life, love and attracting a quality man.

Naughty Texts That Will Make Him Want You Badly

a long-distance relationshipSexting is also a great way to keep the spark alive in your relationship, especially if you’re in a long-distance relationship. However, it’s also one of the best ways to grab the attention of the man you like.

The truth is that the best answer to the question ‘What to text a guy to get his attention?’ is definitely a sexy text. However, you should be careful with these texts because they might make him think that you’re only looking for a hookup.

If those are your intentions or you simply want to make him want you badly, these dirty, sexy texts are the right choice for you. I’m sure that a follow-up text will come right away.

1. There’s a huge sale going on in my bedroom right now. All clothes are 100% off, it’s a limited-time offer.

2. I’m fantasizing about you right now. Want to come over and make my fantasies a reality?

3. I know you had a long day, so why don’t you come over and I’ll give you a back massage… naked.

4. Work is going very slowly today, because I can’t stop thinking about all the fun we had last night. Can’t wait for a repeat session.

5. The thoughts I was having about you were so dirty that I had to take a shower.

6. You should probably clear your schedule for tomorrow morning because I plan on staying up late with you tonight. Very late.

7. When I come home, I want those pants off and you waiting for me in bed/the kitchen.

8. If you were here right now I would tear your clothes off and shove you onto my bed and have my way with you. But you’re not, so… rain check?

9. Thinking about you touching me literally turns me on.

10. Let’s get one thing straight. When we meet later on, there will be no foreplay.

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11. Hey, just wanted to let you know that if you’re ever having a hard time, like a really hard time, I’m there for you. I mean, I can give you a hand… or something.

12. I knew something was missing today… Know what it was? You between my thighs.

14. Let me be clear: When I see you later, I&rsquo13. You’re in my (NSFW) thoughts.

14. Let me be clear: When I see you later, I’m going to undress you, button by button. I’m going to unzip your pants and take them off, leg by leg. I’m going to take off your boxers and throw them against the wall. What happens next is all up to you.

15. I have a mystery for you but I’ll give you a clue. Tonight, I’m gonna make you the special guest between my legs.

16. Should I wear a short skirt or a really short skirt tonight?

17. Why don’t you come over later? I bought a new bra and I need someone’s second opinion.

18. Can’t stop thinking about your mouth and your hands in places they shouldn’t be.

19. You were screaming some filthy words last night. Want to do it again tonight?

20. You are so hot, even my pants are falling for you.

21. I am sooo hungry right now… And the thing is…I don’t want food.

22. Congrats. You’ve leveled up. I won’t be holding back the next time I see you. Prepare yourself!

23. Hey… I feel really odd now. I just took a bath, and I feel so mischievous. How are you?

24. Excuse my curiosity, but what kind of underwear do you like to see on a woman?

Should I leave a message or call back?

When you do leave a message, be prepared not to call back but to wait for their call. Calling too often or with too little time between calls. . All the same, if you are persistent in calling someone give them at least 48 hours to return your call before you start calling and leaving messages again.

How do you know if a guy only wants sleep with you?

The man who wants to sexually use you doesn’t need much kissing or touching. His body is ready for the sex act quickly and he’s not thinking about your satisfaction. He’s thinking only about his gratification. You are a sexual object to him.

Do guys like Goodnight texts

Answered By: Antonio Miller Date: created: Mar 29 2021

Guys appreciate getting a text from you, especially if it is something as sweet as a good night text. Many men love getting these kinds of messages, but it is against the status quo to ask for them. … You can say “Sweet dreams”, “Night my love”, “Good night darling”, “Good night sweetheart”.

Asked By: Ashton Stewart Date: created: Jun 17 2021

These Are The 5 Things Every Woman Needs to Know About Men:

  1. He doesn’t care about texts, and neither should you
  2. Men communicate through actions more than words
  3. Men want to give and make you happy- they just din’t always know how
  4. He’ll get over his baggage if he thinks he might lose you
  5. His number 1 concern is losing his freedom

Funny Text Messages That Will Make Him Laugh

If you ask me what to text a guy to get his attentPeople say that a good sense of humor is the best way to a man’s heart.

If you ask me what to text a guy to get his attention, I would say that these texts below are exactly what you need.

Use any of these texts as a conversation starter, add some funny emojis at the end of your message and you’ll get a reply faster than you think. Of course, you can always send a funny meme or pic or even a silly selfie that will go perfectly with your text.

1. Thank God I’m wearing gloves because you’re too hot to handle.

2. Where is my strong pickle jar opener when I need him?

3. Even though I love wearing my granny panties, tonight I’m wearing something a little riskier.

4. Got to go on a girls’ night out. Drunk-text you later? Lol.

5. I’m not going to lie, you’re hotter than the bottom of my laptop after I’ve watched way too much Netflix.

6. Just read that caffeine can boost a woman’s libido. Is that why you keep inviting me for coffee?

7. Imagine that my bed is a football field. I’m the football and you’re running for a touchdown. See, I do like sports!

8. I really miss you (but probably not as much as you miss me. I’m pretty awesome).

9. I’m in my bed, you’re in your bed… One of us is in the wrong place.

10. Been thinking about you… and it hasn’t all been PG.

11. I’m making the first move when it comes to texting, so I’m expecting you to make the first move when it comes to kissing.

12. Now that I’ve officially texted you, I’m going to be obsessively staring at my phone, waiting for it to beep, so don’t keep me waiting.

13. I think our lips should have a meeting. ASAP.

What to text about with a guy

When it comes to what to text about with a guy, it’s important to reflect on why you’re texting in the first place. Do you want this relationship to be the one you spend your life focusing on? Is this someone you envision yourself with long time? Are you just trying to text a hot guy and not expecting much? When you’re able to really identify what your motives are, you’ll be able to navigate through the waters of texting that much easier and more clearly.

If you’re trying to learn how to text a hot guy, I’m going to say that confidence is most important. Chances are, if you’re trying to text a hot guy, he knows he’s hot, and may likely have other women trying to get his attention. Therefore, confidence is going to be critical. It’s one of the sexiest characteristics out there. Even if you’re second guessing yourself on the inside, make sure not to communicate that in the text messages. This point relates to the above tip about implementing emotions into the dialogue. Just don’t do it!

I can’t mention texting a hot guy without taking a moment to emphasize that looks really (and I mean really!) don’t mean anything when it comes to developing a long term relationship. Sure, being physically attracted to someone is really important, but it will only matter if there’s more to it. If you aren’t fundamentally compatible and you’re wanting to know how to text a hot guy because it’s an ego-driven conquest, then make sure you’re walking into the situation without too high of expectations. I do not say this because you’re likely to put yourself in a position to get rejected, but more so because beneath that pretty or hot face is more important, and you may find yourself disappointed in the end if you only chased that face and not what’s behind it.

I hope that, overall, this article prepared you with necessary tools to consider when it comes to texting a guy you like or how to text and man you’re wanting to get to know or maintain a relationship with. Please know that no matter the situation, you can handle it well when you’re prepared. Reading this article puts you ahead of the curve, and so I commend you.

If you have any questions at all about the above content or to seduce a man, please feel free to leave a comment below. Or, if you have a text story or question you’d like to share or discuss, I also invite you to leave a comment below. This information is for you and I want to make sure it’s worth your while. Wishing you the best always,

Coach Natalie

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